Why do people have to make definitions for "wrong"? Does that mean that because people have different perspectives that there are different levels of rights and different levels of wrong? So, can I be 30% right and 70% wrong in your eyes and 80% right and 20% wrong in my eyes? People talk about grey areas, this is exactly what it is all about... I mean, IF I feel that I'm MORE right than wrong, then I'm right and what other people says, they wouldn't understand it ever completely, so whatever they say is ok, as long as I'm at peace with what I'm doing. Well, I think the reason why there's a right and there's a wrong, as harsh as it sounds it is because there's no in-betweens. Whenever, there are in-betweens, those are not even right or wrong questions/issues, those are supposedly choice issues, one choice is as equally right or wrong as the other. For example, there's no wrong with you choosing either to go to play tennis or play golf.
The moment that one have to think about right or wrongs, he/she has to make a choice to either side with "right" or side with "wrong", not how many percent right or how many percent wrong. Fair enough, humans make wrong choices in life many times. All there is to it is to admit to it and learn from it, rather than justifying how right or how wrong it is in my eyes or your eyes. There is no point in telling people how "right" a wrong choice is. Yes it is your own choice, choices sometimes have rights and wrongs. Staying in ones own world and justifying every choices we made to fit our own liking is simply ignorant AND arrogant. Humility is key, for me and for you.
And yes, for those who still don't realize, usually those people who you don't like to listen to are people who will challenge you to the core. They are the ones who will make you become a better person in the long run. Staying within a group of comfortable friends who wouldn't tell you how stupid you are at times is just gonna continue to bring your own standard and level down. It's like living in a dirty and rude neighbourhood and you gradually become more and more like the people around you.
You deserve so much more.. more than the words you've been told. You still like to stick to the old, never to know you're walking down a broken road.
You like the thrill of this moment, like there is nothin' more than joy in this instance. Slowly you're just part of the substance, How can you feel the ultimate fulfillment?
You say, you say.... What is life, when nothing's permanent? What is love, when papers and rings gives no assurance? What is our cost, if we're just one in six billion? What should we ask for, what should we ask for?
In a gentle voice, He whispers through the rain. The love He gave, is more than life could pay. He said, he said, "You deserve so much more than this world could ever give."
Everybody is just the same...... it becomes clear that I shouldn't put too much expectations on people on what they decide to do. The more of these things happening in front of me, the more I feel numb about it, since to these people, whatever they decide to do is their own choice and their decisions is always "right" in their eyes, it is not my right to expect or tell them what to do. Well fair enough, I don't feel annoyed anymore... all I would say is, the more I see, the more hopeless it becomes. And whatever you guys chooses to do, it's of course not up to me to decide.
What I don't care about doesn't take away the fact that what you guys do shows NO substance at all... so be it.
How I wish someday somebody will actually do things as a pleasant surprise and allow me look up to.
Though this is not the newest of all, I like this song recently. Check out the lyrics and the following video documenting the writing of the song.
我有今日
歌手：側田 | 作曲：側田 (On Your Mark)
填詞：林夕 | 編曲：側田 (On Your Mark)
Hate myself for loving you so much Oh I hate myself for falling back in love Never been good at words I wanna say I sing my love for you I'll just let the music make sweet love to you
